If you really think that you can understand women, you’re a fool. They talk in circles and are raised to be coy and shy. This means that men will never really be able to work what they mean all the time. However, it is possible to figure out what they mean in very specific situations. Even online, women are shy about telling you what they really want you to hear. This means that even if you’re actually doing really well in some areas you’re going to be doing poorly in others. The most that you can do is to look for very common phrasing and try to figure out what she really means. Three common phrases have been proven through trial and error to be translatable below. Use this information to get a one up on the other guys who are competing for her attention.
Up for Adventures
What do you think of when you hear that a woman is up for adventures? You probably think that she either wants to climb a mountain and have sex at the peak or that she’s a very kinky flower who’s begging for that side of her to be released. Actually, it’s the women who say that they want adventures who are actually the most vanilla. A truly kinky woman doesn’t have to say that she’s “up for adventures.” She knows exactly what she wants. A vanilla woman thinks that adventures would be nice to have, and she thinks that it makes her sound exciting. She knows that men like taking the lead, so she’s playing into the idea that she’s permissive and easy to please in the hopes that it will keep more guys interested. In the real world you know that you can skip everything that she has to say. If you want to go through with this you can find a woman who can bring some of the adventure with her, not rely on you to provide everything all the time.
Kinky Is Encouraged
“I would love to spend some kinky time in bed”
When a woman says that she means that kinky is mandatory, but she doesn’t want you to think that she’s weird. It also probably means that she’s holding back on one or more kinks or fetishes. She needs to feel like she can trust you with this information before she gives it to you. Kinky is encouraged means that she has to know how weird you are before she can feel safe enough to tell you what she really thinks about at night.
“She loves to travel”
When a woman says that she’s willing to travel to your place it means that she doesn’t want you at hers. There are many reasons this could be, but the most common one is that she has someone at home she doesn’t want you to meet. It could be a husband, a parent, or a child, but she doesn’t want her hookups to deal with that part of her life. You know this because women are typically most comfortable with stranger when they’re in their own space.