If you want to know why other guys are getting hookups online and you aren’t, it might not be because they’re better than you. They could just have a better ad. If you’re not a marketing director then writing your own ad can be a challenge. Rather than assuming that you’re terrible, make sure that your ad has these five things that no online sex hookup ad could succeed without.
A Good Pic
“A sexy profile picture attract women”
This doesn’t mean a smiling headshot. In fact, it means the opposite. Women respond best to a man with a natural expression who’s not looking directly into the camera. That’s right, women don’t like it when you look right into the camera. They want to see you looking off into the distance. This is what they find to be attractive because then they don’t see that you’re too eager. Women hate men who seem like they’ve got nothing going on. You look collected and mysterious when you’re not looking at the camera.
A Specific Date Idea
You should always have a specific idea near the end of your ad. Instead of just saying you’d like to hang out sometime you should say that you’d like to grab tacos at this place down the street, hike to a secluded spot in the local park, and have a picnic lunch that uses the blanket for other things too. It doesn’t have to be any one particular idea, but you should include something that fires the imagination of the women reading it.
You need to go through and make sure that your ad says that you’re awesome. Again, the exactly phrasing isn’t that important. What is important is that it totally seems like you’re amazing. If your self-esteem isn’t the best, pretend that you’re writing about someone else. What would you say to make someone who’s not you but has all the same characteristics seem awesome?
A Call to Action
If you’re familiar with business talk, the call to action is when an ad tells you to “call today!” Believe it or not, calls to action really work. Humans are way more likely to do something if they’re told to do it. Including a call to action at the very end of your ad will make women more likely to actually message you if they’re not sure. Don’t make it an option. Say “Send me a message tonight!” instead of “If you’d like to get together, you could message me…”
A Couple of Ways to Contact You
“An Instant way of connecting with girls – use instant messengers”
Never include just one way to contact you. You should have a totally separate instant messenger account just for hooking up, as well as an email address that you got just for this purpose. You should slap those to the end of your message so people will know that they can get in touch with you a few ways. You’ll never know how a woman prefers to get into contact, so you should supply a lot of options. Women are just looking for a reason not to do something with you. Don’t make it easier for them.