When it comes to finding a sexual partner through online ads, there’s no manual on how to proceed. Just like everyone else who’s trying out this way of getting laid, you’re just going to have to wing it. Unfortunately, doing it this way means there’s a lot of room for error. If you’re interested in trying to find a woman to hook up with but you’re worried that it’ll turn into a trainwreck worthy of a segment on the nightly news, you need to know what you should do and what you should avoid in only to prevent a disaster.
Don’t: Assume It’s Made
“If a girl is meeting you, don’t assume that she will be ready for sex too”
Just because she’s agreed to meet up with you doesn’t mean that you’re going to get laid for certain. She could still back out for a ton of reasons: she’s afraid, she’s shy, she’s not feeling well, she’s still hung up on her ex, and so on. Chances of this happening are unfortunately pretty high. Does this mean you shouldn’t expect sex at all? No. It just means that you need to be aware of the fact that you might not seal the deal. This way you won’t be too surprised or disappointed if it doesn’t happen.
Do: Get Yourself in the Mood
If you’ve gone as far as to put out an ad on a sex personals website, you’re obviously a pretty horny dude. So why not set the mood for the date early? Get yourself revved up a little before you even meet her face to face. If you’re hot and ready to go she’ll be able to tell, which means that while you’re sitting through a couple drinks or a meal she’ll be getting just as horny as you are. By the time you’re finished and ready to head back to your place or hers, you’ll hardly be able to keep your hands off of each other.
Don’t: Push Too Hard
“Never force a girl for sex if she is not interested”
Yeah, she found you on a website that helps people who want sex meet other people who want sex. And yes, she agreed to meet up with you in order to have sex with you. But she might have a serious case of nerves when it comes time to do the deed, and if that’s the case the last thing she needs is you pushing her to put out. If she gets cold feet, try as hard as you can to be understanding, even if doing so will give
you the worst case of blue balls ever. Being a nice guy will make it easier for her to relax, which in turn might make it easier to figure out what she wants. If you keep pushing for sex like an asshole, you’re only going to turn the night into a disaster.
Do: Cover Your Ass
On the off chance that your hook up date is a serial murderer, you’re going to want to make sure your ass is protected. This means that you shouldn’t rush off to meet this woman without letting your friends or family know what’s up. You also should have some kind of plan in place that will alert the people closest to you that there’s a problem. If you don’t call them by a certain time, for example, they’ll know that something is wrong.