“Ladies, Here I come to blow your mind”
The days of being ashamed of the fact that you’re looking for sex online are over. It’s as widely accepted to search for a hookup online as it is to shop on eBay. All you need to do is take a look at any sex personals website to see that it’s something that thousands of people are doing without shame. If you’ve always wanted to try to find a woman who’d like to hook up with you online but chickened out before you got around to it, now’s the time to put a plan in motion. You’ll never have a better chance of finding ladies who want the same thing you want then you will right now. It’s not just as simple as typing up an ad, though-you need to make sure that you type it up right.
Skip on Being Subtle
“Provide full information what a girl should know about you”
There’s a time and a place to play coy, and a sex personals website isn’t either of those. You want your ad to get the point across without being too disgusting. Looking for a “lucky babe” to be on the receiving end of your “giant dick” is one way of going about it, but it’s also a way of selling yourself that makes you look like a colossal douche. You can be blunt without being disgusting. An ad stating “27 year old male looking for hot ginger to hook up with” can be just as effective as an ad that gives way too much information.
If you prefer BBW, make damn sure your ad says so. Otherwise you’re going to get tons of other kinds of women replying to your ad. If you’re open to a little experimentation, this maybe isn’t a bad thing. It’s also a good idea to state whether you’re looking for a one time thing or whether you’d be interested in hooking up a few times. Of course, these are things you can iron out later once you strike up a conversation with an interested woman, but if you state your preferences up front at least you’ll get replies from the kind of ladies you prefer most.
Everybody knows the danger of soliciting for anything on the Internet. There are always going to be creeps and psychos out there, and those personalities aren’t just limited to men. Women can be just as dangerous as men, which is why it’s important to keep your own safety in mind when you’re writing up your personal ad. You should start by creating an anonymous email account-never use one with your own name. And the name that you give shouldn’t be similar to yours. Don’t use your surname or your middle name. Come up with a new one entirely. It’s also a bad idea to list your phone number or address right in the ad. Instead, insist that interested people contact you by email. Once you start talking to them you can decide whether you want to hand over your phone number. If this all seems like overkill, just take a moment to Google the bad things that have happened to people who have responded to sex ads online.