If you’ve never had sex with a perfect stranger before, chances are you’re going to be (at the very least) just a little nervous before you set out for your first hook up. This is normal, unless you’re a very confident guy who’s doesn’t really worry about anything. It’s one thing to meet a woman at a bar and bring her home to your place to get some steamy action. It’s another entirely to put out an ad on a sex personals website and meet women that way. So when you’ve lined up a date with one of the ladies you met online and you’re prepping for the meet up, just exactly what should you do to get ready? Just keep reading. We’ve got all the answers here for you.
Hooking up with a woman you met online is not cause to dress like you’re attending a black tie affair. Getting too dressed up is only going to make both you and your date feel awkward. It might also give her the wrong impression about you. If you want to set the right tone you need to dress the part, and casual is the way to go when you’re picking out some threads. Jeans and a T-shirt should be good enough, but make sure they’re clean. You can class it up a little with a polo shirt or khakis, but make sure to stay within your comfort zone. Otherwise you’re going to feel uncomfortable and if that happens, it’s going to set the tone for the whole evening.
Trim It Up
“Women love clean shaved guys”
Even if scruff is how you roll, you might want to consider trimming things up before you set out for your sexual escapade. Keeping the beard in check is going to make it look like your cultivating your look (which is what you’re going for). The same goes with long hair-keep it if it makes you look good, but remember to go in for a trim every now and then or you’re going to end up looking like a hobo. If you’re not sure whether you should roll with facial hair or not, consult some friends. Or, err on the side of caution and go clean shaven. Again, though, make sure that you’re comfortable with what you choose. If you’re not it’s going to be obvious to everyone around you, including the woman you’re planning on hooking up with.
“Trim your body hair and get ready to bang”
This should go without saying-if you’re planning on getting naked with a woman, you’re going to want to make sure things are looking good below the belt. This doesn’t mean you need to head out and traumatize yourself by getting a full body wax. In fact, all you might want to do is trim or shave a little bit. If you’re worried about how your dick’s going to look, consider this: some pubic hair makes it look big. Too much bush and it’s going to look small. And if you opt for that weird pre-pubescent look, it’s going to make you look, well, pre-pubescent. Unless you want her to feel like she’s really robbing the cradle, you’re probably going to want to avoid the latter option.