No doubt it can be an incredible let down when you think you’re hooking up with one woman, and you get a totally different person once the two of you meet. Many times you may want to take out your annoyance and frustration over the situation with her. As angry as you may be, this isn’t always the best idea. Reacting poorly toward a woman who lied to you about who she is will just end up causing stress for both of you. Instead of getting angry, there are two other things you can do to make the situation work in your favor.
Is It Really Worth Getting Upset Over?
“Stop being upset – get over it”
When you finally meet up with her only to discover that she is nothing like she said she was, take a moment to decide if it’s really worth being upset over. Sure, she may not look, sound, or act like what you imagined, but that doesn’t mean that you still shouldn’t have sex with her. Think about it. If you weren’t planning on doing anything other than having sex with her, what difference does it make if she doesn’t look the way you expected her to?
Instead of trying to figure out a way to escape without upsetting her or causing a scene just forget about the fact that she lied to you and have sex with her anyway. Do everything you planned on doing to her when you thought she was someone else. Really give her a night that she will never forget. Afterward, you can begin putting your next plan into action especially if the fact that she lied still isn’t sitting well with you.
Don’t Get Mad (Get Even)
“Stay calm – don’t lose it”
Once you’ve had all the sex you wanted to have with her, you can begin getting even with her for lying to you. The best way to do this is by giving her a taste of her own medicine. If you want to keep sleeping with her that is fine, but you shouldn’t worry about being honest with her. Lie about your intentions, how you feel about her, and anything else you feel like lying about. Ignore any feelings of guilt you may have. Remember, she was the one who lied to you first.
You still want to be careful with whatever you are telling her. She may be furious if she finds out you were lying to get even, so don’t let her get any blackmail material on you. Pay close attention to her behavior at all time. If she lied to you knowing that you would eventually meet her in person, who knows what else she will do.
Dealing with a woman who has lied to you about who she is isn’t as though to deal with as some men think. As long as you don’t do anything like fall in love with her online, paying her back or getting away from her will be pretty easy. Just to be on the safe side, always assume that you’re being lied to.