On top of everything else awesome that the Internet provides us with, you can also turn to it to find a partner for sex. This is something tons of people do, but results tend to vary quite a bit. Reports for this kind of hookup range from amazing sexual encounters to awkward situations to dangerous scenarios. The latter is the reason why you want to make sure you protect yourself if you’re considering trying out the sex personals scene. While most the horror stories you hear include men as the villains, the truth of the matter is that women can be just as scary and unhinged. So if you’re looking to hook up with a beautiful, eager woman that answers your personals ad, you need to make sure that you take the right steps to protect yourself first.
Start With Anonymity
“Never hesitate to display a different persona”
Rule number one regarding sex personals ad: create a new persona. The beauty of the Internet is that you can easily remain anonymous while pretending to be someone else, and that’s exactly what you want to do in this case. Create your personals ad using an email address that can’t be traced back to who you really are. And never, ever use your real name-that’s just asking for stalkers to look you up. Don’t even use your middle name or surname. Instead, create something entirely new.
Keep It Email Only at First
Once you’ve created an anonymous email just for this, it’s time to include your contact info. Here’s where you need to start being really careful. It should go without saying, but don’t use or put your phone number in the ad. Throwing your address in there is also a really bad idea. You might think it’d be alright to put in your work number, but that’s also just asking for trouble. Leave your contact info as email only to begin with. After you start talking with women who reply to your ad you can eventually decide whether you want to give them your phone number.
Keep Pics Simple
“Use such kind of profile picture”
If you’re including a picture with your sex personals ad, it just needs to be simple. A simple mug-shot is good enough, but if you’re looking to entice the ladies you might consider a shot of you from the waist up to show off your six pack (provided you have one). While dick pics are pretty much a given in this game, try to refrain from keeping them off your Ad. Including them is going to make you seem way too straightforward. Additionally, most sex personals websites won’t allow nudity on the actual page. This doesn’t mean, however, that you can’t send dick pics to any ladies that respond to your ad.
Establish a Contingency Plan
So you’ve met a woman, talked her up, and decided she’s the one. Only thing left now is to get naked with her between the sheets, right? Wrong. Before that can happen, you need to make sure you have a contingency plan in place. Alert a friend or two to what you’re going to be doing. Tell them that if they don’t hear from you by a certain time to start being concerned. This kind of plan will cover your ass in the event that your date turns out to be a psycho.