Most of the time it’s not really going to matter where you’re hooking up-all that matters is that you’re getting some! However, sometimes the setting is going to matter, and that’s especially true if you wind up getting it on at her place. This means you’re on her turf, which can make things awkward. It can also make things awesome, depending on what kind of woman she is. If you’re not sure how you’d feel about that kind of situation, we’ve put together a comprehensive list of pros and cons for you to go over.
Pro: It’s Probably Clean
“If it is her place, then get ready to cherish such beauty”
One of the main differences between men who live alone and women who live alone is that women tend to be cleaner. This isn’t always true-there are women out there who are slobs-but for the most part it is. So if you’re headed back to her place in order to seal the deal, you can rest assured that there won’t have to trudge through piles of garbage or deal with a bedroom that’s filthy. If you’re a germaphobe, this will be good news for you.
Con: There May Be Pets
Tons of women who live alone tend to have pets which means, the chances are pretty good that your hookup date is a pet lover. If you’re not much for animals, this can make things kind of interesting. Imagine being in bed with her, getting hot and heavy, and all of the sudden there’s a cat brushing against your legs purring. Awkward, right? What’s going to be even more awkward is that you won’t be able to get mad or chase the cat off because she won’t like it. So you’ll have to deal with the animal while all the while you try to stay focused on what matters: getting some.
Pro: It’s More Intimate
Shacking up at her place is going to be far more intimate than getting it on in a bathroom stall at the bar or even coming back to the house you share with roommates. If you’re looking for an intense connection to go along with the amazing sex, doing it at her place is the way to get it.
Con: It’s Her Personal Space
“Her place might freak you out in the morning”
Getting together with a woman and heading back to her place is going to mean that you’ll be surrounded by things that are personal to her. When you’re busy getting your freak on with her that probably won’t matter, but the morning after is when it’s going to start getting awkward. You may wake up and find yourself face to face with her collection of stuffed animals from her childhood or even worse, a picture of her and her ex-boyfriend. You’ll end up knowing way more about her than you ever wanted to know, which can make it hard to keep thinking about it as a casual hook up.
Con: It’s Unfamiliar
One of the things that most guys have done after hooking up with a strange woman is sneak out afterwards. There’s no shame in it because you don’t know her and you don’t owe her an explanation. However, if you’re at her place, sneaking out can be tough to do because you won’t be familiar with the layout.