Bad boys have been around since men have been men. The appeal is that they don’t follow the rules of society and are all unique. But this isn’t just something that you try to do, you have to be born into it. Luckily there are ways that you can up your bad boy appeal without having to fully commit. Ladies love the bad boys in life, but still want a guy who can take care of them (in the sack or in the long run). You can be the best of both worlds by following a few simple rules.
Give Very Few Cares
“Don’t give a damn about the world”
The idea of not giving a fuck is what being a bad boy is based on, but if you’re going to be the best of both then you just have to give very few of them. Don’t care too much about what you wear or what other people think of how you look, but do give some thought as to what she thinks. You don’t want to ask her for fashion advice or anything, but if she mentions that your stained shirts are kind of gross then stop wearing them. She’ll definitely notice and love that you listened. This leads to her feeling special and wanting to get it on with you. It also makes her feel like she’s part of some whirlwind indie romance or something.
Look the Part
You don’t want to go too far into looking like the typical bad boy, but you do want to add elements of it into your wardrobe. Basic white tees, blue jeans, some leather bits here and there will all add interest into what you already wear. Think of the classic bad boy, James Dean, for inspiration. You’ll come off as cool and classic instead of a guy who looks as though he’s stuck in his teens.
Like Weird Stuff
Be your own master, don’t listen to anybody”
Girls don’t just want assholes, they want interesting assholes. So your bad boy persona needs to have some sort of snobby music or movie selections that others just aren’t all that aware of. Having opinions and knowing some hipster-type background info will give you the vibe of giving very few cares as well as being interesting, so you’re killing two birds with one stone. Speaking of, killing birds is not okay so, don’t try to pick up something that’s creepy to try and be interesting. That’s along the vein of looking at her profile way too often and letting her find out, collecting your favorite band member’s sweaty clothes, and having violent porn in your room. So, weird stuff needs to be at least moderately normal for her to be into it.
All bad boys have interesting stories that sound like they almost might not be true. Make some up or go out to make some happen. Things like jumping trains or meeting famous people always qualify as interesting and build a character that she won’t be able to resist. Plus if you’re just trying to have a fling or whirlwind romance you won’t have to be around long enough for them to be disproven.