You know that old saying: the best way to get over someone is to get under someone new. It doesn’t matter whether you dumped your girlfriend or she dumped you. Every time a relationship ends you find yourself going through a phase of loneliness or depression. It doesn’t matter how hard you work or how many dates you go on, it feels like you’re never going to break out of your rut and meet anyone really compatible again. This can be a pretty hard feeling to shake when all is said and done. When you’re struggling, the Internet is here to help. All you have to do is find a personals site and you can post your own advertisement. Before you know it, sadness over your break up will be a thing of the past. Here’s how a sex ad will make you happy again.
Post an Honest Ad
“It is foolish to think that you are better off alone, go online and find someone new”
First of all, you’re probably feeling like you’ll never meet someone good again. If it didn’t work out with her, it’s never going to work out with anyone and you’re going to be alone forever. That’s a bit of a harsh way to feel about things, but it’s a totally natural response. What you have to do is write an honest sex ad. Try to strain out all the bad things you feel about yourself. Tell women who you are, what you look like, and what you’re looking for in a partner and then see how many responses you get. Every woman who wants to have sex with you is proof that you’re totally wrong about yourself. You have a lot to offer and even random women on the Internet can see that she’d be lucky to have you.
Stick to Cyber Sex at First
Break ups can be vicious. A lot of women like to lash out at people when they got dumped (or when they’re dumping them) and accuse them of not being very good at sex. Of course, it doesn’t matter that you didn’t hear any complaints during the time that you were actually together. All it takes is a few cutting remarks to make you feel like you’ve learned nothing in all your time being sexually active. It’s very easy to find women online who don’t want to hook up in person. All they really want is to sext. This is perfect because it means that you can polish up your skills and learn what women really want at the same time.
Focus on This to Boost Your Confidence
“This attitude will surely get you another woman”
Between these two halves you have everything you need to have a great hookup right at your fingertips. When you feel bad about yourself, remember that a hottie online thought you rocked her world last night, and that there are eight more women crowding your inbox and hoping that they’re going to get your attention tonight. If you’re the kind of guy who prefers relationships you can use this new self-esteem to impress the woman that you actually want to be with and officially get over your ex.