What to Do When You FWB Wants a Relationship

“Don’t get upset! Almost every FWB couple goes through this situation”

Having a friend with benefits arrangement with a beautiful woman can be pretty exciting. If you’re not interested in being in a committed relationship, but still want to be able to hangout and sleep with someone who keeps your attention, a friends with benefits type of relationship might be exactly what you need. Unfortunately, sometimes some women often forget the previous arrangement that they made with you. When this happens, they will stop wanting to be friends with benefits and will want to be in an actual committed relationship with you. If you’re open to being in a relationship, this shouldn’t be any problem for you. However, if you’re not quite ready to be tied down, there are a few things that you can do when she tells you that she wants to be in a relationship with you.

Let Her Know What to Expect

If you decide that you’re willing to have a relationship with your friends with benefits hookup, you should let her know in advance what she should expect. Just because you agree to a relationship with her doesn’t mean that you have to only see her exclusively. Let her know what she should expect from being in a relationship with you. If you still plan to see other women, tell her. If you have no plans of only having sex with her, make sure she agrees to that stipulation.

The best thing to do when you accept being in a relationship with someone that you were previously friends with benefits with is to make sure that the two of you have a full understanding of what the other wants. Don’t allow room for assumptions.

Let Her Know Why It’s a Bad Idea

“Explain the repercussions of going in a relationship to her”

If you don’t want to experiment with having a relationship with your friends with benefits hookup, try to come up with several reasons why it’s a bad idea. Try to emphasis why the two of you wouldn’t make a good match for anything more than occasional hook ups. Don’t rely on typical and clich sayings such as, “It’s not you, it’s me,” or “I’m just getting over a bad relationship and don’t want anything serious.” If you use these types of responses, she will just think that you are coming up with anything just to avoid being with her exclusively.

Instead of relying on clich messages, be completely honest with her. Tell her that you don’t want to be in a serious relationship because you like the excitement of being with different women.

Just because your friends with benefits hookup tells you that she wants to be more than friends, doesn’t mean that you have to allow things to be awkward between the two of you. The best way to avoid those awkward situations is to simply be honest and put everything out for the two of you to go over. If she’s OK with whatever arrangement that the two of you come up with, then go for it. If not, you don’t have to worry about letting it get to you.


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