From One-Night to Fuckbuddies: The Facts on Making It Smooth

You might be wondering how it’s actually possible to end up with a fuckbuddy, or more politely put–a friend with benefits. This is really something that’s pretty easy on sex personals sites.

You’ve just got to go in looking for it.

A lot of women on these sites really just want that one hookup and nothing more. There’s nothing wrong with that, because ultimately, a lot of the men on here are the same.

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That being said, what if you’re different? What if you want someone that you can regularly meet up with for a fun round of sex? There’s nothing wrong with that either.

You ultimately just need to go in knowing what you want, and be upfront with it. Of course, this isn’t always what you end up wanting at first…so if something changes, you need to be prepared.

Turning a Hookup into a Friends With Benefits Situation Isn’t Difficult, Either. Read On For Our Tips.

Maybe you went into the hookup just wanting a fun one-night stand. That’s pretty common, especially whenever you’re using these kinds of sites…but what if it was really great?

If you’re an older man, you might find yourself expecting not to have the same amount of fun on these kinds of outings, but that’s a damn shame. You can really end up meeting some amazing ladies.

If you hit it off with an incredible woman, you can really end up finding someone that’s fun to meet up with again in the future. It’s all a matter of bringing it up properly.

Make sure she’s on board.

It’s always awkward if you end up trying to propose one of these situations and it just doesn’t end up lining up with what your lady wants, so you do need to talk to her.

Being upfront about this sort of thing is going to end up saving you a lot of trouble. You need to be honest, and tell her that you’d really love to see her regularly.

This will let her realize that you’d like to be something of a regular friend with benefits. This can be the kind of thing that she’s ready for, or just wanting to avoid.

Either way, be nice about it.

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It’s never cute when a guy can’t handle rejection, especially if you’re someone older that has had a lot of experience in life. You need to understand that she might say no.

On the off-chance that she does say yes, however, you need to be ready to give yourself a pat on the back for the personals dating tactics that ended up getting you there.

She might not want a relationship, but there’s no reason to think that she wouldn’t want to end up seeing you again in the future for another rousing night of fun.

Be honest about it.

If you outright just tell her that you want to end up hooking up again in the future, but that you really don’t want a relationship, there’s a bigger chance that she’ll understand.

That’s a good thing, by the way. She’s going to appreciate your honesty, and probably end up at least being very flattered by the offer if you’ve had a great time.

Many women in this case will at least be willing to try it out for a second time. This means that you’ll have another opportunity to end up having fun with her to make sure it’s for you.

If it works out, that’s great.

After a certain point, you need to understand that you are either just a friend with benefits, or the two of you are looking at a more long-term relationship together after meeting online.

You do need to make sure that you’re both ready for that if that’s something that’s happening, however. Just make sure that you talk to her before you assume anything.

Whatever happens, have fun with it. You don’t want to end up feeling pressured to do anything, and you certainly don’t want her to feel like she’s in a bad situation. Good luck.

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